In a shortened
version we will try to explain. Once upon a time (yes,
it starts like in a fairy tale) there was a rock by the sea
that, even with the force of a hundred men and a lot of dynamite,
couldn't be moved or cracked. There was also a man in this town
by the sea, who was known to carry the evil eye (Nazar).
After much effort and endeavor, the town people brought the man
to the rock, and the man, upon looking at the rock said, "My!
What a big rock this is." The instant he said this,
there was a rip and roar and crack and instantly the immense and
impossible rock was found to be cracked in two.
The force of the evil eye (or Nazar)
is a widely accepted and feared random element in Turkish daily
life. The word *Nazar* denotes seeing or looking and is often used
in literally translated phrases such as "Nazar
touched her," in reference to a young woman, for example,
who mysteriously goes blind.
Another typical
scenario. A woman gives birth to a healthy child with pink cheeks,
all the neighbors come and see the baby. They shower the baby with
compliments, commentating especially on how healthy and chubby the
baby is. After getting so much attention weeks later the baby is
found dead in his crib. No explanation can be found for the death.
It is ascribed to Nazar. Compliments made to a specific body part
can result in Nazar. That's why nearly every Turkish mother fixes
with a safety pin a small Boncuk on the child's clothes. Once a
Boncuk is found cracked, it means it has done his job and immediately
a new one has to replace it.